I was afraid about the size because I have never bought one other than from Spencer's, lol but I went with the 10 mm and it looks perfect, a little bigger than what they put in for healing but not by much. It got "lost" for like 5 days and stayed at a mail facility for a while that has bad reviews so I thought it got stolen but then the next day it showed a delivery date and I felt relieved because one nose ring for $85 is expensive. I've had 14k gold earrings in my ears all my life and I don't switch them out often because any other material irritates my skin so that's why I chose a 14k septum ring, so I don't have to switch it out, honestly it makes me cringe doing so anyways. But it's as beautiful as I expected it to be. I like to leave good reviews because I hate going in blind so I help other people not go in blind.